2 days ago, fell to a daughter of our tribe of babies born in the respect and privacy. Born peacefully (at home and in the water), loving parents and absolutely committed to the love of her daughters and her family. Protective parents, who would not abuse the medical system. So be prepared and committed to give you the best birth to her daughters (both born at home). But that day ... desperation claw closed as they saw that the baby fell over tiny ... And mom ran ran, amid the tears to seek help for her daughter ... thinking a thousand things ... with fear, despair ... Help ... Help! He spoke, sang, the suckled on the road, she clung to it desperately (in an attempt to provide comfort) and to arrive at Center of High Complexity ... did you receive?
... veiled threats ... probing questions ... suspicions ... abuse ... indirect charges ... police-interrogation ... Questioned from the name of the baby to birth at home (and therefore more suspicion and more abuse) then took him into another career abdominal ultrasound ...
(pero. .. why ... if you hit your head? Ahhh ... now I also suspected that he had been beaten and we did that "just in case" is not something with other internal injuries )
And finally they did an x-ray of his head. The baby, lucid, and wept as they can be (protesting in their language so much manipulation and authoritarian treatment)
And then the worst ... almost torn from the arms of the mother ... because we "observe" The mother, who was terrified of what happens, does not give them that way, not to explain in understandable terms (only medical vocabulary) ... and more abuse and threats. "we have to go into the Neo and you you can not enter"
('re used to that people would passively submit to their infants and children and sometimes, without asking for explanations, or ask about what to do. .. are used to passively wait for people to "reports" are used to ... not the question to them ... are used to having no questions asked)
But this mom is different .. . she wants to know everything ... she wants you to explain and give them the reasons for separate her baby from her arms (can not be more gentle and understand that this mother is in shock and need gentle voices and common vocabulary?)
And then ... the edge of the threat of calling the police ... this mom called me from her cell phone ... I tearfully explained what happens ... she does not believe what they are saying ... THEN I WILL SEE WHAT HAPPENS ...
What an amazing change in his face swollen to mourn when I see ... when you expect me to talk with doctors (claro. .. I speak the same language) Y. .. no choice but to leave the baby alone in a box Acrylic (incubator) it naked y. .. alone, all alone .. cries too (by her mother, is the first time do not have close ... because you do not understand how or why she is alone locked in a box) ... And calmer (to me believed that abusive parents were not true ... .. I speak the same language ) make it a CT: lesion without complications ... without cerebral hemorrhage ... but still remains under observation.
And I'm short-hug to calm her and him to stay behind the wall of a cold room mothers. After bargaining begins: "Do not give formula, I bag mine ".... run to find the breast pump to obtain a good deal .. we will look for blankets, food, drinks ... is the way of parents with babies in Neo: wait on hard chairs in the waiting room for hours until they allow him to happen to mom to nurse.
exlique you needed more explicitly, the shame they feel to belong to this race of people who, for a title, they feel above everything and everyone? Yes, of course ... "THE SYSTEM" and mothers "must comply with the rules of the institution"
but ... rules say nothing about the system that should be hard and treat coldly authoritarian and mothers ... no? if they saw mothers crying because they listen to their babies in the Neo, mourn and mourn bitterly ... expect a human hand that calms down, to be touched ... and nothing ... ("you can not enter, the visit is at 11," ... and it is 11 less 10)
Anyway ... continue like this forever ... because each family, as soon as you deliver your BB high slit as fast as possible for there to never return ...
(what if, before leaving these families formally complained of mistreatment?)
Today, Saturday July 18 at 09:00 am I receive a message on my cellular:
"we are discharged after noon"
I talk to her mother:
"... say it is a little bit anemic ..."
(bien. .. and what changes to expect a couple of hours for the upper, if you know you can withdraw? .... Peroooo ... Neonatologist on duty as of today is part of our team ... I say talk to her)
SMS at 10:00 pm:
"HAVE A DRINK IN MY ARMS AND NOS VAMOS A CASA"
Dear parents of this lovely drink: LQMMM ...
And all I need, I'll be there ...
if only to give them strength and comfort!
... veiled threats ... probing questions ... suspicions ... abuse ... indirect charges ... police-interrogation ... Questioned from the name of the baby to birth at home (and therefore more suspicion and more abuse) then took him into another career abdominal ultrasound ...
(pero. .. why ... if you hit your head? Ahhh ... now I also suspected that he had been beaten and we did that "just in case" is not something with other internal injuries )
And finally they did an x-ray of his head. The baby, lucid, and wept as they can be (protesting in their language so much manipulation and authoritarian treatment)
And then the worst ... almost torn from the arms of the mother ... because we "observe" The mother, who was terrified of what happens, does not give them that way, not to explain in understandable terms (only medical vocabulary) ... and more abuse and threats. "we have to go into the Neo and you you can not enter"
('re used to that people would passively submit to their infants and children and sometimes, without asking for explanations, or ask about what to do. .. are used to passively wait for people to "reports" are used to ... not the question to them ... are used to having no questions asked)
But this mom is different .. . she wants to know everything ... she wants you to explain and give them the reasons for separate her baby from her arms (can not be more gentle and understand that this mother is in shock and need gentle voices and common vocabulary?)
And then ... the edge of the threat of calling the police ... this mom called me from her cell phone ... I tearfully explained what happens ... she does not believe what they are saying ... THEN I WILL SEE WHAT HAPPENS ...
What an amazing change in his face swollen to mourn when I see ... when you expect me to talk with doctors (claro. .. I speak the same language) Y. .. no choice but to leave the baby alone in a box Acrylic (incubator) it naked y. .. alone, all alone .. cries too (by her mother, is the first time do not have close ... because you do not understand how or why she is alone locked in a box) ... And calmer (to me believed that abusive parents were not true ... .. I speak the same language ) make it a CT: lesion without complications ... without cerebral hemorrhage ... but still remains under observation.
And I'm short-hug to calm her and him to stay behind the wall of a cold room mothers. After bargaining begins: "Do not give formula, I bag mine ".... run to find the breast pump to obtain a good deal .. we will look for blankets, food, drinks ... is the way of parents with babies in Neo: wait on hard chairs in the waiting room for hours until they allow him to happen to mom to nurse.
exlique you needed more explicitly, the shame they feel to belong to this race of people who, for a title, they feel above everything and everyone? Yes, of course ... "THE SYSTEM" and mothers "must comply with the rules of the institution"
but ... rules say nothing about the system that should be hard and treat coldly authoritarian and mothers ... no? if they saw mothers crying because they listen to their babies in the Neo, mourn and mourn bitterly ... expect a human hand that calms down, to be touched ... and nothing ... ("you can not enter, the visit is at 11," ... and it is 11 less 10)
Anyway ... continue like this forever ... because each family, as soon as you deliver your BB high slit as fast as possible for there to never return ...
(what if, before leaving these families formally complained of mistreatment?)
Today, Saturday July 18 at 09:00 am I receive a message on my cellular:
"we are discharged after noon"
I talk to her mother:
"... say it is a little bit anemic ..."
(bien. .. and what changes to expect a couple of hours for the upper, if you know you can withdraw? .... Peroooo ... Neonatologist on duty as of today is part of our team ... I say talk to her)
SMS at 10:00 pm:
"HAVE A DRINK IN MY ARMS AND NOS VAMOS A CASA"
Dear parents of this lovely drink: LQMMM ...
And all I need, I'll be there ...
if only to give them strength and comfort!
